This morning I was surfing the net and social media looking for content that would inspire me to impart knowledge and what did I stumble upon, an old friend and my imagination ran wild. The questions began popping what if what if Ah! I know that look, what if he was the one… would life be any different and would I be any happier? Would I be fulfilled? or would I look for an escape route? Can I withstand the pressure?  Would they even by any pressure?

So, to my beautiful ladies out there, who have experienced this sort of scenario. You knew him for ages, went to the same school either uni or secondary school. You had a crush on him, or he had a crush on you first, but you never paid heed because you were with someone else.

Fast forward, 5 years down, you kept in touch and you thought something could come out of it now because you are single and he is single but it never did. Both of you seem not to be pursuing the idea seriously because of work commitment and pop out of the blues you both met two wonderful people, fell in love and got married. You lost touch again and found yourselves, this time not physically but online. You checked out each other’s profiles and began thinking… what if…

Yes. It always starts by surfing through social media sites, seeing the dude who would have asked you out but never did, simply because you did not have right body type for him, but he liked your character. Have you ever wondered how you guys would have had a connection  and maybe get  married? Do you feel a twinge of jealously when you see his better half? Ha! OYO is your case. Just kidding it happens to both male and females alike.

But one thing we should know is that we live for today and tomorrow and the future, we do not live for the past. Why look back and turn to a pillar of salt? when we can look around and make castles from our bricks. Life is a beauty to behold when we appreciate and are truly content with what we have, only then can new horizons be seen, and new doors be opened. After all, it never happened, it won’t happen now, and it will not happen in the future.