Cut off, cut off, cut off any and all contact.
Don’t bother about calling him!
Delete him and all his buddies and clan from your online world.
Dump him, not only from your Facebook, Twitter and Instagram accounts, but also dump his parents and his friends that are not really your friends.
You are not gonna be best friends…
You have to dissuade yourself from thinking that you can be best friends with you ex. Probably never, but especially not NOW.
Do not, under any circumstances, have breakup sex with your ex.
No idealizing the man and the good old times you had.
Don’t get into the trap of “trying to get him back.”
And if you do take him back…
It’s over for a reason — never look back.
It’s a bitch. But you have to do this in order to move on, to not be bitter and to not get stuck in the past. After you forgive him, forgive yourself. And move forward.
Check yourself before you wreck yourself.
Accept that there is no closure.
You may be desperate for resolution, but you have to accept that there won’t always be resolutions in life. You have to close that chapter without answers.
The only way to get closure is by giving closure to yourself. Just move on and never look back. Stop wallowing and embrace the new fabulous life you deserve!