1. A perfect lover puts your needs above his/her needs and desires: When he/she makes those sacrifices for you, not minding the denial to his or her self.
  2. A perfect lover wants to see you happy: When he or she asks you after sex, if you are satisfied, instead of rolling over to the other side to catch some sleep.
  3. A perfect lover will not deprive you from fulfilling your life long dreams and ambitions: When he or she knows that your career means a lot to you and not chide you for giving so much to it. Then you are lucky to have him or her in your life.
  4. A perfect lover will not give you unnecessary stress: He or She knows when not to bother you and let you do your own things.
  5. A perfect lover will always create an enabling environment for the relationship: He or She craves for peace and is driven towards resolving issues in the relationships rather than escalating it to prove a point.
  6. A perfect lover admits to being wrong : He or She apologises easily without being bitter about it or raising aimless arguments.
  7. A perfect lover protects you: He or She knows you are at fault, but still take the pains to shield you from others.
  8. A perfect lover does not ridicule you : He or She respects you, never cheats on you publicly or privately and never never breaks your heart.
  9. A perfect lover tells you the truth : He or She tells you the truth about yourself even though it may hurt you because he or she wants you to be a better person.
  10. A perfect lover knows you: He or She remembers your birthday and other special anniversaries or celebratory days in your life. A perfect lover never never breaks your heart but encourages you to become a star.

Ladies and Gents, know you are with the perfect lover when he or she scores 8 out of 10 and if that is the case, do make some effort to compromise your stance and meet him or her in the middle.


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Hi, I am Flora Ngo-Martins. I love writing and I am passionate about fashion, stories, news and food. Sometimes I get a little bit serious but that's alright, I can also be mischievous. I also like to analyse stuffs people do and sometimes judge.*wink* Most of all, I love to influence the lives of people positively and tell people's stories from a totally different perspective. Feel free to contact me if you have any suggestions or....

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